Frequently Asked Questions nsa sex, sex in jhb


1. Who can join NSAcontacts ?

Anyone who is single or married and over 30 who lives in Gauteng or travels here at least twice a month. We don't cater for couples.

(See question 23 below if you are a guy in your 20's.)

2. Do you have a cut off age or do you cater for the more mature crowd as well ?

We cater for everyone, from 30's through to 70's. Human beings remain sexually active and interested if they choose to, regardless of their age.

If you are in your 60's or 70's and reading this question, the fact that you are even on our website means that you still have plenty spark, so there is no need to still e-mail us and ask for our approval.

It is up to you to create an exciting enough profile that will attract the opposite sex and of course you need to have realistic expectations considering your age,

3. Why don't you offer free Membership ?

As far as Free Membership goes, we honestly have nothing to offer you.

Our Free tour is the Visitors Area which comprises of some of the Club's activities you can expect as a paid up Member.

If after browsing our Visitors Area and seeing what the Club offers, you still clicked on Free Membership, consider this ...

When you meet an Intro, as most people do, they test the chemistry by meeting for a few drinks or lunch or dinner and possibly go on to enjoy no strings attached fun by booking into a hotel.

Now consider you had "Free Member" Status on your profile, the person you are with would not have met you in the first place as you may not even have money for drinks let alone lunch or a hotel room, considering you couldn't afford to pay for Membership.

All our Members are paid up Members and wouldn't want to meet someone who hasn't contributed.

The same applies to parties held at either our home, the Club's premises, a hotel or another Member's home, they all cost serious money to host and each person has made that possible by paying for Membership.

We have invested 18 years of our lives into our Club and website and we ourselves dig deep into our own pockets every month to ensure the Club and website is properly run as far as advertising, parties and events go, so we don't really have much time for freeloaders.

Swinging is a lifestyle we chose long ago and it costs us just as much, if not more than the next person to enjoy NSA fun.

Our advice to you is ...

If Free Membership is what you are looking for, then our Club is not for you, we all pay our own way.

There are 1000's of Free Automated Dating Sites who might cater for your needs.

This page might seem trivial and silly to most but believe it or not, we still receive e-mails from grown men who want to "pop around" and see what goes on at a Party or privately meet a few of the Female Members to discuss their needs as far as NSA fun is concerned as they have doubts or reservations before parting with what wouldn't even fill ½ a car's tank with petrol !!

Are those the types of people you would want to meet ? Hence this question, lol :)

4. What is the difference between Silver and Gold Membership ?

Silver Membership gives you full access to the Intros, but NO access to the Limo Rides, Parties or Events that we host.

Gold Membership gives you FULL access to Intros, Parties, Limo Rides and Events.

5. If I join as a Silver Member to "try it out" can I upgrade my Membership once I am satisfied with what I see ?

No you will have to see your Silver Membership through for the duration of one month, there are no upgrades for Silver Members during this month.

In our 17 years experience people who are dubious and sceptical generally don't start off with their best foot forward and don't do very well in our Club, you are an adult, make an informed decision and either join or X the site down if it isn't for you.

6. How long does it take after I make a payment before I receive my login details ?

You will receive your login details within 24 hours if you made a transfer from ABSA or a cash deposit, however an EFT from another bank (ie: Nedbank to ABSA) can take 2 to 3 working days to clear.

7. How do I become a VIP Member ?

VIP Membership is only available to existing Members.

Not everyone qualifies for VIP status, once you have joined as a Gold Member you are welcome to ask us if you qualify or not.

8. I don't have a discreet e-mail address, can all correspondence be done via sms ?

You will have to go and get yourself an e-mail address as payment confirmation, login details, introductions and profiles can ONLY be done via e-mail, it is not possible to sms.

Our initial e-mail to you containing your login details and how to find your way around as a Member is simply way too long to sms. Besides when it comes to the time that someone is intereested in making contact with you, most people like to chat via e-mail first so we cannot help you if you don't have an e-mail address.

We recommend you get yourself a discreet e-mail address at any of the free providers such as Ananzi, Gmail, Webmail ,etc. This will ensure your e-mails are 100% private.

9. What is the ratio of men and women in your Club ?

After having an online presence for the last 18 years women feel secure and comfortable with the way we run our Club. Personal details will only be handed out with their consent and hence they join and invariably long term, so as to attend Parties where they are assured of a safe and secure enviroment to fulfil their fantasies. Therefore we do have a larger percentage of women in our Club, obviously the conversion rates vary by Membership type.

The good news is that men and women look for sex online in about equal numbers, so your odds of finding someone suitable for you should be pretty good, whether you're male or female, however this is all dependant on your profile, how attractive it is to the opposite sex, it is after all up to them to want to meet up with you.

Bear in mind that 99% of Men join with the intention of meeting someone immediately, alot of them refuse to place their profiles and most are generally impatient and don't see their Membership through, whereas for women it is more of a long term endeavour and that contributes greatly to the success of our Club, the pie chart below is self explanatory or browse through the Intros pages and see the numbers for yourself.

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10. How do I go about meeting the profiles ?

Once you are a Member, you will find more personals in the Members area as well.

Once someone is interested in meeting you and you are also keen to meet, you will then advise us whether we should give that person your e-mail address or your cell number to make initial contact, that is the only time your details will be handed out and only with your permission, this is our way of facilitating the intro, thus ensuring your discretion.

11. How do I place my own profile, and can I update it regularly ?

Simply mail it to us, we will place it for you and update it as often as you like, within reason.

12. Can I use an alias / pseudonym for my profile ?

Yes you are welcome to use any name you like to protect your anonymity.

13. Are all profile pics also blurred in the Members Area ?

Yes they are, thus guaranteeing your anonymity.

14. Do you cater for couples ?

Nope.

15. Do you do same sex Introductions ?

No we don't cater for Gays or Lesbians.

16. Why do you only cater for single (whether they are married or not) Babes and Studs ?

Because there are enough clubs in Gauteng which cater for Couples only.

17. Are all your active Members only in Johannesburg ?

Most of our Members reside in Gauteng, although some live in Bloemfontein, Cape Town, Durban etc, but they do visit Johannesburg regularly to enjoy the Club's benefits, as we don't cater for any other area besides Gauteng.

18. Do I need to come to a party to meet Intros ?

No, a lot of people prefer individual meetings, rather than groups.

19. Am I guaranteed of sex ?

No you are not guaranteed of sex, if someone doesn't like you they are not going to fuck you !!

Unlike other automated dating websites, we strive to and take great pleasure in ensuring our Members meet their fantasy NSA partner or partners. From the time you join we will help you every step of the way, from creating your profile to making up wishlists and facilitating them.

At the end of the day it is really up to the opposite sex to want to meet you, so yes, that is what all our Members are looking for, anonymous nookie, no strings attached.

20. Do I have to meet you in person or how do I arrange to meet you guys ?

Your only option to become a Member is to join online.

In our first 9 years of running the Club we used to meet a lot of Members prior to them becoming Members, but now this isn't possible as more and more people are joining and besides our "normal" daytime jobs we still plan and host 2 - 4 parties a month, so we simply don't have the time and manpower to meet new Members individually. Besides we aren't a "matchmaking service" so personal interviews aren't necessary.

We do however meet most of our Members at either a a Party or Limo ride, we look forward to meeting you there :)

21. Are the profile pics for real ?

We trust our Members to provide us with their real pics, but should someone submit a false pic and it gets found out, that person will be barred from the Club immediately.

We meet most of our Members in person so anyone who claims to be what they are not is only going to get themselves barred from the Club and that would have made it a pointless exercise for them to have joined in the first place. We believe that if you are honest in your approach, you will find what you are looking for.

22. Do I need to bring a partner to one of your parties ?

No, we ONLY cater for single (whether they are married or not) Babes and single Studs who leave their partners at home.

23. Will my identity remain anonymous ?

Yes, absolutely 100%, your privacy is guaranteed from our end.

24. I am under 30, will that count against me ?

If you are a Babe, no it won't, as in our experience even 21 year old females conduct themselves gracefully and get along with all age groups, infact most younger women are looking to meet men older than themselves.

However if you are a 20 something Stud who carries on like a teenager with a bad attitude then our Club isn't for you.

This is an Adult Club which caters to the more mature 30 plus and older age group, you need to not only be sexually mature but mentally mature as well to understand what discretion and anonymity means when dealing with married people on a personal level.

In our experience Studs under 30 aren't very successful so we would deter you from joining, therefore there will be no disappointment from your side.

However if you are a Stud in your 20's and feel that you are mature enough to interact with people in their 30's to 50's and most importantly realise that you have very little chance of being wishlisted by the Female Members then you are welcome to join.

Guys in their 20's, please don't still e-mail us and ask if you can join, show some maturity and make up your own mind.

25. Is colour/race an issue ?

No, we all get along very well together, however personal preference prevails.

26. I have joined other Adult websites, only to be disappointed, how is yours any different ?

We are NOT just a website, but a club in a class all of our own !! How many other websites provide access to personals, limo rides and parties single and married men and women ? You never meet the owners of websites, they always seem to be anonymous. Our website speaks for itself.

And as we say on our Main Page ...

Unfortunately local Adult websites have a bad reputation, we are not one of them. If you have previously joined an unscrupulous website, that does not mean you should point fingers at legitimate clubs, we have been in existence for over 18 years providing an ongoing platform for likeminded Adults to make contact and we deliver what we promise by means of keeping the website up to date, doing extensive advertising ensuring new Members join on a daily basis and hosting as many parties as we possibly can.

Feel free to to make your own informed decision by reading through our website, however if you are cynical or if this site is not for you then please just x the page down, we find it infantile to have to justify or take unwarranted abuse that is hurled at us.

27. Are any of the people who advertise prostitutes ?

NO, they are just people that are in touch with their sexuality and want to enjoy themselves. Escorts have their own websites that they advertise on.

28. What if I don't live in Gauteng ?

If you travel to Johannesburg regularly then you are welcome to join, if not then you are missing out on all the fun as we only have Intros and Parties in Gauteng.

29. Do you know of any similar Clubs in Cape Town, Durban, etc ?

No we don't, we live in Johannesburg and have our own Club so we have no need to frequent other Adult Clubs.

30. I live in Cape Town, Durban etc and would like to meet some of your Members who live in my city, is this possible ?

No it is not possible, our Members who reside in other cities come to Johannesburg to enjoy discreet NSA fun, if they were looking to meet people where they live, then they would have joined a site which caters for their city, once again Intros ONLY take place in Gauteng.

31. I live elsewhere and will only be in Gauteng for a few days / weeks, will I be able to meet someone ?

Realistically no, our Members aren't here to entertain people who breeze in and out of town never to return again. If you travel to Gauteng at least twice a month then you would stand a good chance of meeting someone.

32. Are you planning to start a similar Club in Cape Town or Durban or any other city ?

No, Our Club and website isn't a franchise, it is a hobby and since we live in Johannesburg we only cater for people who either travel here regularly or those who also live here, Introductions and Parties will only ever take place in Gauteng.

33. Why do you have different URL's and which one should I use ?

We were the first to use the term NSA in a URL and now there are 1000's of bogus UK / US / German etc websites that are .co.za registered that claim to be local, but really aren't.

One URL is like trying to find a needle in a haystack, so in order for us to compete with so many NSA URL's we had to register several in order for you to easily find us on major search engines.

You are welcome to use any of the URL's below, whichever is easier for you to remember, they will all take you to one website, NSAcontacts.co.za

34. What is your Refund Policy ?

Once you purchase Membership it is final and non refundable, there are "No Refunds", so ensure this is what you want before you pay for it.

We can however put your Membership on hold for a maximum period of up to 30 days until such time as you are ready to use it. Your only other option is to give your Membership to a friend as a gift.